Sometimes you have to lose yourself to know who you are. When you reach the lowest state of being you can reach up into the highest, for great depth extends both ways. In the emptiness do we see the light. When there is no reason to live anymore do we find more reasons than ever possible.

When you look at yourself and realise it is all so empty – then can you enjoy life because you know it is empty, you have experienced that emptiness and out of that emptiness becomes reality, a reality of becoming, of defining, of valuing everything and everyone you have and put in your life because this time you are not simply acting out, this time you are the writer.

When you know through experience that life is one grand play and that it all boils down to the script writer, then you take full control but sometimes you have to be lost without a script to know this.

In the darkest hour comes the greatest joy.